Wife of the Ondo State Deputy Governor, Lucky Aiyedatiwa, Seun has described her husband as a serial beater.
The revelation comes on the heels of allegation by a Women Group, the Society for Women Empowerment (SWE) about the deputy governor’s abusive behaviour.
The deputy governor had, in a statement issued by his media aide, Kenneth Odusola-Stevenson, on Sunday, June 4, denied assaulting his wife.
He stated that the allegation was baseless and the imagination of a faceless group, adding that there has never been any issue of domestic violence as alleged.
However, the deputy governor’s wife, in a statement issued on Wednesday, June 7, said she was severally assaulted by her husband.
Narrating her experience, Aiyedatiwa noted that the deputy governor’s abuse forced her to relocate to London.
She said she endured physical, emotional, and mental abuse from her husband before her relocation.
Aiyedatiwa said: “I have come across numerous comments regarding the statement released by the Women Group, the Society for Women Empowerment (SWE).
“Although I cannot ascertain the existence of the group or the true intentions behind the story, I feel it is important to express my pain for the sake of other women.
“I am a woman who deeply respects and supports my husband. Our story, like many others, has been one of grace and growth. While I am sociable, I am always mindful of my husband’s position. I have dedicated myself to nurturing our home and children, as any wife and mother would. I have done so with unwavering strength.
“Prior to Lucky’s appointment as the deputy governor, we had ongoing issues revolving around abusive behavior. Each time, he would apologize, often attributing his actions to alcohol. Our children have witnessed this on two occasions. They implored me to have him arrested, but I explained that Nigerian culture does not provide room for such measures.
“I am not happy about revealing my personal struggles publicly. It is a painful reality I must confront. I have reached the conclusion that concerted efforts must be made to eradicate the scourge of violence against women.
“I have endured physical, emotional, and mental abuse from my husband—beatings, torture, and constant mistreatment.
“On December 1, 2022, during a minor argument, I experienced one of the most severe beatings of my life at the hands of my husband. I was left bruised and battered, to the extent that I could not attend the birthday ceremony of Toyin Akeredolu, the younger sister of Governor Akeredolu, in Ibadan. He threatened to kill me, uttering words of disdain.
“On Friday, December 2, I traveled to Ibadan to meet with the First Lady, Chief Betty-Anyanwu Akeredolu, to report Lucky’s actions. When she saw my battered face, she was enraged. She subsequently reported Lucky to the Governor. Lucky used to be the First Lady’s favorite, but since that day, she has distanced herself from him.
“Upon returning to Akure, even with my bruised face, Lucky slapped me again. He accused me of exposing him to the Governor and First Lady. He not only slapped me but also poured Hennessy on my head, berating me as a worthless woman.
“A few days before the FOWOSO summit, I was burdened with depression and numerous issues. I had already made up my mind not to attend the program.
“However, Lucky approached me, pleaded, and promised never to harm me again. I had to apply heavy makeup and wear dark glasses to conceal the bruises on my face, just to attend the event.
“By the end of January, Lucky resumed his abusive behavior. As much as I am a strong supporter of his aspirations to succeed the Governor, I have consistently advised him to exhibit decorum in his public life.
“Every time I mentioned this, he dismissed it as jealousy and insecurity, showing no regard for my feelings. Disrespectful calls were frequently received at our home, especially from one Ambassador Tolu Taiwo, one of his girlfrie
